Havingness is the ability to comfortably share the space with
something. There is a difference between having and wanting. You may
want something and get it, but if you cannot have it, you will destroy
it or lose it. You will not allow yourself the enjoyment of it.
You may have programming that says you are unworthy of having, unworthy
of being happy. Often our level of havingness is programmed into us by
parents or other family members. As Spirit, there is, in fact, no limit
to what you can have - unlimited abundance. Havingness levels are
learned and they can be unlearned. The goal is to remove the
programming that limits your havingness.
Perhaps, at a core level, you believe, "I'm not good enough to truly be
loved", or "there is just not enough in the world". Through meditation
you can remove the old messages and allow yourself more abundance. Stay
clear with your intent to let the old programming go. We create this
world, this reality and it can be whatever we want. We exist in a
universe of free will and unlimited energy, and anything can be
created.
