When you take steps spiritually in your life the ripples go out and
affect people around you. Some will love the changes, others will go
into resistance. As you grow spiritually, you will find more and more
people turning up in your life under the illusion of "just a friend" -
girlfriend, boyfriend, acquaintance, roommate, employee, boss, or
whatever. As a Spiritual Warrior, it is your job to look at these
relationships on an energy level and see what is actually going on.
Many of them are there for spiritual information. Please do not be
fooled by outward appearances, see truth and act from a place of your
highest integrity. Remember, most of the time these people are after
the spiritual information without being conscious of what they are
doing, just like you did for part of your spiritual journey.
As a Spiritual Warrior, there are several important principles to
remember. You are not responsible for the people you do spiritual work
with. It is not your job to "fix" them. You are simply assisting them
to take their next step and release whatever they are ready to let go
of, at that moment. There will be times when the person you are
working with is ready to heal a lifetime worth of stuff. Other times
they just cannot have much of the healing. This is not your
responsibility. The person may cry, get angry, go into resistance or
complain about being in pain. Alternatively, they may want to put you
on a pedestal as an “amazing healer”. It is important not to take any
of this on. There needs to be permission for all of the varying
responses to take place but you must not take responsibility for it.
It is their process. It is an excellent time to practice empathy.
Keep the work clean and neutral.
As a Spiritual Warrior, you will need to move out of your space
anything that says, "It's my job to make sure everything is taken care
of". Allow releasing of any messages that say, "It's my job to fix
everyone”. It is not your higher information. Let go of anything that
says, "If I'm not looking after or fixing them, I'm selfish". You can
only be responsible for what is happening with you. That is most
important. Taking care of others before yourself means losing your
space to them, and that does not work. Remember they are actually
healing themselves - you are just triggering them. All healing is
self-healing.
