Part of the process of clearing and healing yourself is "completing the circles". When past relationships or situations are unfinished, a part of your energy will still be engaged in that dynamic and held there as if frozen. The circle needs to be completed in order for you to be more free.
It is important to be honest, and look at past dynamics in order to identify incomplete circles. You must have a clear sense of what needs to happen to complete a circle so you can continue to move forward. You do not have to be out of the relationship to complete a circle. You can still be involved, but you will be free of any pieces that are hanging on. When cleaning up a past or present relationship by completing the circle/unfinished business, the frozen energy is released, which is a healing for everybody involved.
